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Stop Judging My Gay Kinky Fetish!

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I recently read in a large online publication about “33 Weird And Disturbing Sexual Fetishes.” The authors seemed freaked out that people could be turned on by anything outside the ordinary… but I found myself thinking about two things after I read through the list.

First of all, who the fuck do they think they are, telling other people what is or is not sexy? What’s “weird” and “disturbing” to one may be “hot” and “steamy” to another, or vice versa. As long as everything with one’s uncommon fetish or kink is consensual, this seems like common sense to me. But apparently, it’s not to the closed-minded crowd. Just because some guy thinks sticking his cock in the same woman for thirty years of bland “love making” is how life should be, that doesn’t give him the right to tell me where, how, who or when I should be playing with during my own lustful sessions of sexual exuberance!

Second of all, there was a lot of stuff on that list that seemed very dismissive of erotic symbols often associated with kinky gay male sex. The list mentioned different forms of bondage, which, as a person who loves male kink, I found really annoying. There was also mention of different forms of jerking off (or masturbation) and differently types of cosplay and dressing up in kinky costumes and as imaginary characters.

I wanted to tell the authors of this article to stay away from GayBDSMDate! On there you can find all sorts of people looking for guys looking to get some male kink going – guys looking for costume play and male masturbation together, and guys looking to bring your favorite imaginary character to life. Instead I told my friends on GBD about that article, and we staged our own informal insurrection by posting comments and offering to send the author dick picks of our erections! It’s 2015 gents, and we really don’t need to put up with small-minded naysayers who overstep the boundaries of our equality anymore!

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